Life is going in its usual space. With everything changing in its own way around my side. I am not going to discuss whether that is good or bad for life but it must be good for those which are changing. The big question that is rising in my mind that whether I can able to cope up with this change. Does copping up of change only means facing the situation with a smile in face or rather facing the situation with a dull face but with a satisfaction of the change in the mind?
Facing the changed situation with a smile in face will surely send a wrong signal to the changed scenario that I have accepted the change whole-heartedly. But is this the right way to showcase our intention towards your dear ones who had changed a lot? May be it is a nice way to keep his/her heart, he/she will feel that I will be besides him/her in the time of needs but will I able to do this? When I am taking my decision from my heart and if my heart is not supporting my action I fear whether I can beside that person during his/her utmost needs. And if I remain present I will only be there physically and not mentally that is sure.
Now, coming to the fact that if I face the changing person with a satisfactory mind I will be mentally strong enough to be by the side of the person when he/she needs. But here lies the most important problem of life. Human beings have their own unique DNA patterns and as a result their behaviour, their mode of thinking is always different. So, what may be right i my view may be wrong for that person. So, at that time the change of the person will not get the node of my heart and whatever he/she is doing I have to accept it with a smile in my face if I don't want to oppose it.
And what will result in opposing the change? It will result in breaking up of something that has takens millions of momemnts to set up and to reach such a stage that whose ending will result in some moments that will be hard to forget.
I am in the middle of such a storm I don't know what should I do now? I am in middle of sheer darkness and hoping to get a ray of light to move up in my life. May be I really missing my umbrella person. God knows!
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by
Hally-The Comet
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Tuesday, May 19, 2009
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2 comments:
one shouldn't be complacent in friendship...thts sumthing not for friends to be.
its good to be besides ur frnd, bt if tht puts boundaries on frndship wht value does it carry then? i think a frnd wud be d best person to share d sorrow as well as shun complacency and openly(but not publicly) argue things he myt nt see as normal... as long as tht doesn't put d frnds +ve changes to a halt.
remaining frnds shud nt b d priority of frndship, its more imp 2 b worthy of being frnds. i believe in it.
dude i'm with u....my view point is just like that. According to me time is our big enemy. Wht would u do...its totally depends upon the time......if d time is yours, then everything with u.....wheather it is a person or situation....and if it is not with u.....then u never understood "what would u do"...may be frustration would be d only umbrella above your head.
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